The problem with online hookup sites is that you have too many choices. Sure, it’s a great problem to have, but how can you be sure that you’re really getting the most out of your experience? You don’t want to be wasting money (if you have a premium membership) or even just your time (if you’re looking for a free lunch) by not meeting all the sexy women that a site puts at your disposal. There are some tricks that will get you closer to your goal than ever, though. Here are the top three tricks to make sure you’re meeting as many hot women as possible.
Make a Form Letter
You don’t want to copy and paste the same dull stuff to women over and over, but you also don’t want to be starting from scratch. Obviously it’s much harder to write 30 different interesting, engaging first messages to women than it is to write one interesting and engaging message and customize it to fit 30 different women. All you really have to do is sketch out the skeleton of a letter. Start with introducing yourself, write something like THING WE HAVE IN COMMON HERE, write out the standard invitation to a date night you offer all the ladies, and close. Then go to her profile, take a quick look through, and replace “THING WE HAVE IN COMMON HERE” with “Wow, your musical taste is inspired. I only knew half the bands, so I set up a Pandora station to listen to the others. Even if we never speak again, you’ve improved my life.” It doesn’t take very long (and it could be a total lie) but it will make your message seem much more personal.
Don’t Limit It to Within Your City
Cars exist. If you’re only searching for hotties in your area you could be missing out on smoking hot women. Remember that they have fewer options if they don’t live in a big urban center. Widen your search radius and send the hottest of the hot an invitation to join you in the steamy city. If you don’t live in the city and they do, just reverse it: you could show them what a real night in the country is like. Whatever you do, know that if they’re willing to travel to you then you have a sure thing on your hands. It’s worth investing in women outside your area for this reason.
Don’t Just Look for Your Type
When you’re browsing a site, it’s easy to search only for women who are obviously your type. Type isn’t everything, though. You might love the girl next door look and then be blown away by a gorgeous woman with full sleeve tattoos. Online it’s easy to be adventurous, so widen your search results by actually looking at the women who have the “wrong” hair color, style, or whatever. You wouldn’t want to eat your favorite food every single day, so why only go after the same type online?