The last thing you want when you’re about to hook-up with a woman is that she doesn’t want you to anymore. There are lots of reasons why she might change her mind, and while it sucks for you it would suck more if you did something and later realized that she didn’t want you to. Here are 5 warning signs to look out for: if she’s giving off these signals, you should back off before you do something you’ll regret.
She Gets Really Quiet
If you’ve been chatting happily until the point where you start getting down to business and then she goes quiet, you’re going to want to back off a little. A chatty person suddenly clamming up is a pretty strong sign that something is wrong. You should ask her if she’s comfortable, and if she still seems reluctant just take a little break. You can always come back to this in a couple of minutes; the happier she is, the better it’s going to be for you anyway.
She Keeps Changing Her Mind about What to Watch
If she can’t make up her mind what you guys should put on the television to add background noise to your hookup, that’s a pretty bad sign. If a woman really wants to have sex it doesn’t matter what you put on. Put on a cooking show, she doesn’t care: it’s mostly to block out noise from the neighbors and to block out the neighbors from hearing you. If she’s obsessing over it then she’s more than likely just stalling.
She’s Really Particular about the Condoms
Of course, some condom choices are really important. This isn’t to say that a woman can’t or shouldn’t be interested in the kinds of condoms you got and what that means for her. The issue is if she keeps checking and rechecking them, or wants to go out to get another brand or another style that’s essentially the same. That means that, again, she’s stalling and might not actually want to go through with this anymore.
She Keeps Checking Her Phone
Some women are addicted to social media, but not like this. If she keeps looking at her phone every few minutes no matter what you’re doing, there’s a chance that she’s looking for an excuse to leave. You can open up that conversation by asking if she’s worried about a friend. This gives her a way to get out of things without being awkward; she can say she is, and she should probably go if that’s what she wants to do. It sucks, but again, not as much as something happening that she wasn’t on board with.
She Mentions Plans for the next Day
People don’t really forget things that they have to do super early the next morning. If she’s been at your place for hours and then “remembers” that she has work or an appointment in the morning then she really just wanted to leave. Let her go; there are plenty of other women waiting to hookup online.