A dating profile and a hookup profile are totally different animals. If you want to get women interested in seeing you tonight, tomorrow, or this weekend for a steamy hookup you have to make your profile just right. The kind of profile that would get you dates with women looking for their soul mate isn’t going to get hot women blowing up your phone at 1am. Here’s what you have to do to create a profile that screams “get it tonight”.
Pick the Right Profile Pic
When you think of a profile pic, you probably think of only a couple things. Either you, staring straight into the camera with a smile on your face, or you flexing in the gym bathroom mirror, smirking as you show what all those reps are good for. Those are the two popular profile pictures on online hookup sites. They’re not going to give you the edge that you’re looking for. Your perfect picture is one of you, not smiling, looking slightly off camera. That sounds very specific, but it’s been scientifically proven. Women respond better to pictures of men who look disinterested. It certainly lends more credence to the old “women only want to date jerks” chestnut. There are a lot of reasons why this might be true, but for the moment just trust us: this simple, easy to create profile pic is going to keep women looking at you longer. The longer she spends looking at your profile and considering it, the better the odds that she’s actually going to pick you. Keep her interest for as long as you can.
Keep Things Short
This is a hookup profile. Do not tell your life story. Don’t talk about where you went to college unless it was Male Stripper School, State. Don’t talk about your job unless it’s a millionaire playboy philanthropist. Forget about all that. Skip the background and focus on the future. You’re a guy who’s looking for a woman who can keep up with him. You’re a man of action who has hobbies like rock climbing and jet skiing. Pick active hobbies because women will associate them with fit guys. You want to do something specific and sexy. Keep your profile short. Write a first draft and then cut out everything you don’t absolutely have to say. You get one joke, and drop the rest. This will keep your profile a bite sized read. Think of this as the blurb on the back of the book instead of the whole novel.
Keep to the Culture of the Site
When you join a site you should be looking at what sort of site it is. Are you joining a site for hookups in your area? Talk about the local attractions you’d like to have sex next to. Is this a dating site specifically for people who love rock climbing? Don’t talk about all the hobbies you have where you stay inside. Focus on the culture of the site. If it’s a site for hooking up, don’t look for love.