If you’re new to online adult websites (or unused to doing much more than using the Internet to check your email) it might be kind of confusing when it comes time to fill out your online dating profile. If you don’t know what you should put down, it’s really easy to make mistakes that can be embarrassing and can even hinder your chances of catching the attention of the eligible ladies signed up with the same website. As long as you know what NOT to do, you should be able to fill out your profile well enough to ensure you get some responses from the ladies.
Sharing Too Much
As tempting as it might be, it’s not a good idea to share way too much personal information online. For example, providing your home address and phone number is a bad call. The same goes with information about yourself that generally only your friends and family will know. The ladies on adult finder sites don’t need to know about your relationship track record and how many times you’ve been dumped. They also don’t need to know how much you make in a year and what kind of clothing brands you prefer to wear. Keep things simple by putting just your age, your name, and your expectations in a few short, blunt lines. Sharing too much is going to make you look long-winded and basically boring, which is exactly what you want to avoid.
Sharing Too Little
On the other hand, sharing too little is going to make women more inclined to skip over your online profile as well. You need to at least have the basics. If you’ve filled out all the profile fields with one word answers, it’s going to seem like you have little to no personality or that you’re afraid to share, both of which will scare the ladies away. You’re trying to get them more interested in you, so don’t be afraid to elaborate just a little.
The women who sign up on adult finder websites are going to want to know what you look like. This doesn’t mean you need to post a head to toe photo of you in the nude, but a decent picture of your face or upper body is a good idea. Refusing to post any photos is only going to make you seem reclusive, which is going to make the ladies wonder why on earth you even signed up on this kind of website.
Too Many Pictures
Of course, you can go too far the other way as well. Don’t be tempted to fill up your profile with pictures of yourself. It’s okay to have two or three, but if you’re rocking more than five on your profile it’s going to seem like you’re a little full of yourself. This is really going to be the case if all the pictures are of you posing half-nude. There’s nothing wrong with being proud of the way you look, but if you spam your profile with pictures you’re going to be selling yourself too hard. You need to strike a balance between the two extremes in order to really get the ladies interested enough to drop you a line.