Signs You’re Looking for a Girlfriend, Not a Hookup

"Oh shit! She is still not online"

“Oh shit! She is still not online”

Sometimes it’s easy to get confused as to what we want, particularly in the area of relationships with the opposite sex. You might think that what your life is missing is the meaningful ties you forge through a serious relationship when in reality what you really want is just a relationship that consists of casual sex with no strings attached. The opposite also commonly happens, too. So if you’ve signed up on an adult finder website with the intent of scoring that amazing sex-only relationship with a like-minded woman but find yourself being more than a little hesitant, it might be because this isn’t really what you’re looking for at all.

You Think About Long Term

"Stop thinking about her"

“Stop thinking about her”

Adult finder websites are all about helping men and women who are interested in hooking up casually find each other. Pretty much everyone who signs up on these sites is only thinking short term for that reason. If you find that you’re exactly the opposite, it could be a sign that you’re actually seeking a girlfriend instead of a one-time only partner. When you’re checking out the profiles of the women who are also registered to the same site, are you noting what they look like and what they want in bed, or are you searching their profile for some sign that they’d make good relationship material? If the answer is the latter, you’re definitely on the prowl for a girlfriend and this kind of website might not be the right one for you.

You Want to Know Everything about Them

It’s normal to be interested in the women you’d like to be sleeping with. That’s only natural. But if your interest is purely carnal, you won’t care about things like her romantic history and her childhood. So if you find yourself wondering about EVERYTHING about her instead of what she’d look like naked and how she’d be in bed, it’s a sign that your brain is focusing more on whether she’s relationship material and less on how she’d rock your world in the sack. You need to either train your mind to let go of the idea that you need to find a meaningful relationship right now or move onto a website that actually promotes long-term dating.

Emotions Are Involved

Sex is awesome because it’s great when emotions are involved, but it’s also great when they aren’t. There’s a reason why so many men and women are looking for hookups, and that’s why. However, not every person is able to emotionally detach themselves and hop into bed with what equates to a literal stranger. If you find that it’s hard for you to engage in any kind of casual hook up without having emotions involved, it’s a clear indicator that maybe you’re not meant for this kind of thing. There’s no shame in it if that’s the case-tons of people are the same way. Trying to force the issue is only going to result in you being unsatisfied in one way or another. If it’s not working for you, just acknowledge it and move on. There are a lot of websites out there that can help you find exactly what you’re looking for.


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