There isn’t a guy alive who hasn’t thought about how amazing it would be to have more than one woman fawning over him. Unfortunately for guys everywhere, the chances of this happening for most of us are pretty slim. This doesn’t mean you need to give up your dream of becoming a babe magnet, though. That’s still a very real possibility, particularly when you’re hanging out on websites designed to help men and women find partners interested in sex and only sex. If you want to generate a ton of attention from the fairer sex, you just need to know how to tease the ladies in just the right way so that they’re throwing themselves at you.
Put Yourself Out There
You’re not going to attract any attention by acting like a wallflower. Women are going to pay more attention to a man who’s making an effort to be noticed. This isn’t a license for you to become outspoken or obnoxious, but it is a license for you to be more openly flirtatious. Being funny is also a great way to garner attention. Just be aware that there’s a fine line between putting yourself out there and being really irritating. For obvious reasons, you’d like to avoid the latter. If you’re on the radar of all the very sexy women that are interested in hooking up, you’re already well on your way to becoming an established man-tease.
Women like a man who’s comfortable with who he is. It’s also much easier to be confident online than it is offline due to the levels of anonymity every Internet user has. So if you’ve already put yourself out there and you’ve done so with an enviable amount of confidence, the ladies are going to be clamouring to get your attention. Just keep in mind that there is a difference between being likeably confident and being arrogant. You don’t want to cross that line. If you do, you’ll go from being an Internet tease to being shunned (for good reason).
If you really want to tease all the eligible ladies you’ve been meeting online, you need to learn how to be playful (if you aren’t already). A successful tease knows how to flirt and joke around without coming on too strongly. After all, the name of the game is to deliver just enough to leave them wanting more. Adopting a light-hearted, carefree persona is a great way to deliver this way. You’ll attract more ladies by being playful than you will by being broody and serious.
Don’t Give Away Too Much
The first rule of being a successful man-tease? Never ever give too much away too fast. So don’t spill all your secrets about your love life and what you want in bed right up front. Make the ladies work for that kind of knowledge. Playing coy is going to make you seem a little mysterious and very attractive, which is exactly the kind of combination you should be aiming for. Keeping some tidbits of information about yourself close to your chest is a great way to keep them coming back for more in hopes that you’ll spill a little more.