Online hookups aren’t just about rushing off to have sex with a stranger. Often it can be just as fun to stay in and have a steamy chat session. You can webcam, sext, or just have a dirty chat for hours. This comes with the perks of being much safer, much cheaper, and means that you don’t have to deal with her once you’re done getting off. All you have to do is leave the chat and you never have to talk to her again. To keep her interested until you’re done, of course, it helps to be able to sweeten the pot somewhat. Here are things that you should talk about to get her hot under the collar and willing to chat with you all night long.
Acts That Give Her the Power
Women love to be in control of sex. They’re so often passive in the courtship phase (letting guys do things for them, etc) that it feels good for them to be able to take the lead for once. Plus, it’s proof that they really are good in bed. When you’re trying to get her hot, talk about things that she could do to take control of the situation and you. Women love oral anyway, so just talk about how she could turn that into a power play. You’d be there to do whatever she wanted, etc. Just be sure that you’re making it clear that you’d be an active participant as well. Whereas men often like to think of their partners as passive when they’re dominant (some men like them with some spirit, to quote every bad porno ever, but there are many men who like their women comfortable and submissive) women like to think that there are two strong personalities, and she just happens to be winning at the moment.
Show That You Know Your Way Around a Woman’s Body
Women like to think that their partner has the experience to get the job done. It’s a lot trickier to get a woman to orgasm than a man, so women have to hope that their hookup has what it takes. It’s not about size (no, it’s really not) so much as technique. You should show her that you know what women like by mentioning crooking your fingers to hit her G spot, licking her clit, and so on. That’s the kind of thing that would actually get her off and will keep her interested in you all night.
That She’s Amazing at This
Women like to hear that they’re good at sex. That’s not so strange. Guys like to hear that too. Guys just rarely say it to women. How many times have you told a woman that she’s smoking hot compared to telling her that she knows just what to say to get you hard? Chances are you’ve mentioned the former way more. Heap on the praise, and you’ll enchant that Internet hottie. She’ll keep coming back to you just to hear how good she is at this.