Adult finder websites are great because they’re an easy way to find women who are interested in hooking up and only hooking up. Instead of heading out to the bars to try and find a partner, all you need to do is log into the website and fill out a profile. Just because it’s easy, however, doesn’t mean it’s going to be instant success. Even though a woman you meet online might seem perfect she might end up being everything but. Normally you’d discover this after you both agree to meet in person, which can turn the awkward factor up to 10 and make it really hard to bail if you need to. So, before you decide to take it to the in-person level, you should absolutely schedule a trial date on Skype.
Cam to Cam
If you’re going to do this, you should insist on making it a cam chat. Unless she’s been misleading you about her looks, this will give you the opportunity to check her out for real. Of course, you should keep in mind that webcams are notorious for making people look bad (yourself included) but it should be easy enough for you to tell whether she at least looks similar to the way she does in her profile photo. Doing a Skype call also means you can watch the way she behaves. You’ll be able to tell if she’s super shy or if she’s comfortable in her own skin. And hey, if you’re really lucky (and she’s feeling naughty), you might be able to see a little sexy preview of what she’ll offer when you meet up in person.
It’s one thing to talk to her through the website chat or through Skype text chat. It’s another to get her on a voice or video call. Once you’re actually able to speak to each other it’s easier to get familiar. Real conversations mean that you’ll get a little more insight into what she’s like and how she works, which should also give you a good indication of whether or not she’s right for you. Of course, what’s on the table is hooking up, but you probably still only want to do it if she’s the kind of person you’re attracted to.
Easy to Back Off
The beauty of using any kind of Internet communication to talk to another person is that it’s really easy to bail if things aren’t what you wanted them to be. For example, let’s say you get her on a Skype video call and she doesn’t look anything like she told you she would. Now that any lust you had is dead, you’re not going to want to keep talking to her. You’re not in person, so you don’t have to worry about things seeming awkward. All you need to do is say you’re no longer interested, end the call, and block her from being able to call or message you. It’s that easy. Yes, you’ll seem like a massive jerk, but that’s preferable to all that awkward bullshit that results when this kind of crap happens in person.