Women like men who are confident. Men display confidence by being assertive. This means that you’re the one who approaches her, and you’re the one who asks her out on a date, and you’re the one who has to make all the hard choices and risk getting rejected. In real life, it’s pretty easy to read a woman’s signals to tell when she’s getting uncomfortable with how assertive you are. Online it can be much more difficult to tell, and you’re going to have to be a lot more careful. If you’re too assertive you’re going to come off as creepy and then no woman is going to date you. Here’s how to walk that fine line between being appealing and assertive and being creepy. Do Take No for an Answer That’s right: DO take no for an answer. Think about it this way: when you’re in a bar, there’s a finite number of hot women you’d be happy to sleep with tonight. Let’s say it’s a huge bar, so there are 10 women you’d be thrilled to go home with and maybe another 10 you’d accept if the first 10 said no. That’s 20 potential hookups in a room, and they can all see you hitting on the others.…
